Being a mother is not an easy job, its the most toughest job of the world, thatswhy
” Mother has heaven under her feet.”
And to earn heaven is not easy.
Here in this article i will discuss some points and some issues of kids and their behaviours.
- What kind of kids you have?
- what type of kids you want to be your child?
why you compare your kids with others?
First i will discuss about different behaviours our have.
Here i mention that every human being has their behaviour me talking about kids because our life chart starts from being a kid.
Proceeding, the following are some common behaviour we find in our kids.
1: Calm and cool
5: Pampering kids
Defining shortly each behaviour of kids.
1: CALM AND COOL: The calm and cool kids are those who do not react pathetically and confusingly in any situation. They are honey to everyone as they only interested in their own work and don’t make messy homes. Darling to their parents and well behaved.
2: ATTITUDE: Yes these are some attitude kids. They only want to do what they want. They do not want to mix in the gathering they dont want to. They are there own leaders.
3: DISASTER: Hahaha! the disaster one , i think every mother has one disaster kid. That kid do not sit in one place and even don’t make their mother to take a breath. They make so much panic in everything. Full of mischievous. Every time in their mind something weird going on.
4: ANGRYFULL: Oh my God! if some thing happens against them, what the hell behaviour they shows. These kids dont have much social gatherings because of their behavior.
5: PAMPERED BABY: They can’t do anything by their own. They are dependable as well as more sensitive. Due to their sensitivity sometimes they isolate themselves too.
WHAT KINDS OF KIDS YOU HAVE?
Rarely couples are agreed for one baby, but commonly we love to have 2 to 4 kids. If you have 4 kids every child is different from each other. Each individual have different behaviour and qualities. So, your exam is to handle with multi behaviour kids. which is quite tough sometimes.
WHAT TYPE OF KIDS YOU WANT TO BE YOUR CHILD?
Every parents wants their children’s to be perfect, and they do whatever makes their children perfect. But you know no one is perfect. Each has some goods and bads. God make us according to our behaviour. So don’t try to change your children, they make them dual nature which is not good for them.
Every child is different so better not to compare them with others even with their own siblings. This cause less confidence and isolation in kids. Parents responsibility is to guide their babies not to pointing out their fact and figures and discouraging them. Make them confident only point out and guide them too when they are going wrong. You have to taught your children what is right and what is wrong not that you wrong and the other is right.
CONCLUSION: Every child is different accept them in their way. Try to enhance their good qualities and behaviour rather than pointing out only.